
Women are beautiful and by instinct like to show their beauty. Like men they have right to do their activity in society freely and without any limitation. But why is that Muslim women cover themselves and are stingy and tight-fisted of coloring the society with their beauty and charm? Why they accept the limitations emerged by their covering (HIJAB)? Questions like these occur when a Muslim woman is observed covering herself and somebody may feel pity toward her. But Muslim women do not see covering as these people see. While many women in the western coteries suffer from sexual harassment at work places, Muslim woman take part in serious social activities feeling secure. Actually HIJAB provides a safe and secure situation for women to work and have effective role in society. They regard HIJAB as immunity not limitation. They see that with HIJAB society does not look at them just as pieces of beauty but honors them because of their reason, knowledge and skills. Just a cursory glance at surveys and statistics about sexual harassments that took place at work
places, faculties and schools in western societies confirm that the only solution is HIJAB. Surveys indicate that more than half the women in the work force in the United States have experienced Sexual Harassment. The book Shockwaves: The Global Impact of Sexual Harassment, by Susan L. Webb, cites the following statistics:*
CANADA: “One survey showed that 4 out of 10 women reported being sexually harassed at work.”
JAPAN: “An August 1991 survey showed that 70 percent of the women who responded experienced” harassment at work. “Ninety percent said they were sexually harassed on the way to and from work.”
AUSTRIA: “A 1986 survey showed almost 31 percent of women reported serious harassment incidents.”
FRANCE: “In 1991 a study . . . found that 21 percent of the 1,300 women surveyed said they had personally experienced sexual harassment.”
THE NETHERLANDS: A study showed that “58 percent of the women responding [to the survey] said they had personally experienced sexual harassment.” 
Regarding these statistics and some other horrifying surveys, it can be proved that who is limited in social activity; Muslim women covering HIJAB or others.
Honestly, imagine a woman who has covered her hair and beauties and other not, which is more endangered by sexual harassment.
Women guarantee the society to be healthy and the family to be firm and immune of collapse. A Man who daily sees many beautiful women whom maybe are more attractive than his wife, gradually lose his love and tendency toward his wife and may cheat on her. On the other hand, undoubtedly women without cover are more exposed to lust of other men and hear amorous words and feel love toward others rather than their husbands. The family in such societies does not have a firm foundation and endangered with collapse. Actually, why is that in U.S.A, 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. Why is that about 22 percent of American men commit adultery, while 11 percent of women dare to do likewise….these numbers have never been observed in societies whose women adhere to HIJAB. If you ask a Muslim woman that why she cover HIJAB she will answer you that because my religion asked me to do so and they are right; There is a verse in Qur’an that says: “O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the faithful to draw closely over themselves their cloak [when going out]. That makes it likely for them to be recognized and not be troubled, and Allah is all-forgiving, all-merciful”.
Now, if you encounter a Muslim woman cowering herself, you may praise her for preference God’s will over her lust of showing her beauty, and for her respect and honor toward your family.
So attire does make a difference. A man doesnt usually flirt with a woman who has a ”Godly” appearance.
I’m sorry I cannot provide any stats to support my case but we all know how ”honor” comes in the way of women being able to report it...
”A man doesn’t usually flirt with a woman who has a ”Godly” appearance.”
yeah right... he just goes ahead and rapes her!!! Dude you’re so full of yourself....get real...there are kids being raped and sexually abused.... it doesn’t matter what a girl is wearing, a horny abusive man wont think twice before attacking her....
AS for the hijab...well I heard somewhere that it was an expression of personal space... and I thought that explanation was wonderful... but I know for a fact that purdah is not exactly a personal choice for Muslim women!!!
If they are given a choice (by their father, brothers and other relatives and politicians/extremists of their region) then I am sure that 50% of them will opt for a clothing where their beauty can be seen (by no means I mean that they must expose).
If they had a choice (most of them dont, as of now) then is only when I can respect this practice , as of now ”it’s got sexism written all over it”
Furthermore, you dont know me so do not make accusations like ”you’re so full of yourself”.
I am sorry that women in Islam in various countries are being abused but that is not what this article is about ”Dude”!
Instead of dealing with the bad behavior at work place and putting people in their place, you want to go the opposite way and contain and restrict women?? Dress does make a difference but no one must be in a place where they need to mask and cover themselves from head to toe for them to feel secure.
Desh, I’m assuming you’re a guy, so you wouldn’t know the kinda harassment women face even in supposedly liberal places like Shimla.
I attended a prestiges girls’ college here and let me tell you, that a girl, no matter if she was decently dressed in a suit or wearing the tightest of jeans and the most revealing top, was being taunted by guys passing by, in buses, in markets and wherever else you can think of.
I dont know if you’ve ever been told to modify your appearance to suit someone’s else’s view, but let me tell you its suffocating!!! And i really dont thin men will understand the kinda anger a woman feels upon being told she needs to dress decently to avoid the male gaze!!!
There’s one plain question to all of you. Is it a woman’s fault if she is sexually abused by men?
(PS: I’m not talking about the women who over expose themselves).
No it’s not, and authorities/ parents find a simple way of dealing with situation, that is to impose stupid restrictions over girls
”I’m not talking about the women who over expose themselves”
Oh, you mean that if a girl is exposing herself then she is inviting men to assault her? Surprised to see that coming from a girl.
It’s free world (or they say so) and I don’t think that women must be restricted to do things that men can do just because authorities cant provide them with proper protection
There’s one plain question to all of you. Is it a woman’s fault if she is sexually abused by men?
(PS: I’m not talking about the women who over expose themselves).
What is OVER EXPOSE?
If you’re in a conservative society, it would mean showing off parts like arms and legs, and heaven forbid, cleavage!!
Of course a pervert flashing women or making lewd comments would never ever be included in the ”over exposed” category!!!!
Male chauvinist? In this case it was a female, I guess you were not able to spot that out
It would have been better if you had some word like traditionalist
because narrow mindedness has got nothing to do with gender
I mean what generalizations. Dressing sense correlated directly with issues of sexual harassment. What you forget to mention is the instance of women in Islamic countries who actually are allowed to step out and work. I guess comparable stats aren’t even available.
And any attempt to explain HIJAB is worthless unless you explain the religious origins of the same.
Again I could point out several fallacies in the entire thing, but off the top of my head: Are you suggesting that women everywhere start covering them in meters of cloth to protect themselves from men? How very childish!
How convenient to attribute men’s ogling on to personal freedom of women. Can you get more biased and juvenile? pleassssseeee!!!!
”How convenient to attribute men’s ogling on to personal freedom of women”
A way that many use to get away from responsibility that society imposes on them. Oppose the weaker class to prove that stronger class is right, how convenient indeed
But the thing is that one needs to dress according to the surrounding society, otherwise, it would be an invitation to attention. That may create problem. I am not in the for or against of the covering of head, it depends on the society they live in.
Girls wearing minis are common in the discs or the beaches but you can’t expect her to wear them in the office or the slum area or the market places.
See I’m not against any kind of clothing because i myself feel that one should wear whatever he/she feels comfortable in but one has to take care of the kind of people she is surrounded by.
Wearing bold dresses amongst narrow minded lot may cause unnecessary trouble to the girl.
I hope I’m able to clear my view now.
$ Nishant you very well know that I am right here because its easy to comment here but can you allow any female member of your family to roam around on the streets with deep necks or the short skirts?
Cheers! No hard feelings for anyone. :)
Maybe it’ll be hard for you to believe but I dont really have anything against that, i mean it’s their life and I am no one to tell them what to do. I may give them advise but I won’t ever force anyone to do what I think is right, atleast till now I havnt :P
All of you who are bugging out about the women in Islam who are being abused have valid points but THAT IS NOT WHAT THIS ARTICLE IS ABOUT!
Good Grief, Charlie Brown!
This article is talking about normal everyday people and the ”POSSIBILITY” that there will be less harrassement and more respect rendered to women when dressed more modestly.
In certain areas it is true that women that are dressed modestly and may even wear the Hijab are treated better than women who are less modest.
Where I live that is true. The craziest guy in New Orleans renders respect to women that are dressed modestly and/or wear the Hijab. Perhaps you live in an area where the guys are totally psychotic and so you should write about that.
Look, I am a guy myself and I know this species too well. The moment they see a seductive female, down goes their zip and the toungue comes out in the open waging the tails with the hope to ’taste’ the girl. ( No offence meant for those MALES who are exception to my this weird rule)
Lets not get drifted and coming to the issue of HIJAB, i dont agree with
—> only solution is HIJAB
so-called ’provocation’ starts?
When I see a Indian female with a saree , the ’things’ which provoke a male for sexual advances is missing. Then how come this lady is raped?
You know what? The dirt is in the mind.
Neways, thanks for the article and specially the reasons justifying the concept of the veil.
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Muslim women apparently cover themselves out of tradition and religious practice. Wish you would point us to some info as regards to what you wrote about Muslim women seeing their being covered up as immunity and not limitation.
So attire does make a difference. A man doesnt usually flirt with a woman who has a ”Godly” appearance.
I’m sorry I cannot provide any stats to support my case but we all know how ”honor” comes in the way of women being able to report it...
”A man doesn’t usually flirt with a woman who has a ”Godly” appearance.”
yeah right... he just goes ahead and rapes her!!! Dude you’re so full of yourself....get real...there are kids being raped and sexually abused.... it doesn’t matter what a girl is wearing, a horny abusive man wont think twice before attacking her....
AS for the hijab...well I heard somewhere that it was an expression of personal space... and I thought that explanation was wonderful... but I know for a fact that purdah is not exactly a personal choice for Muslim women!!!
Furthermore, you dont know me so do not make accusations like ”you’re so full of yourself”.
I am sorry that women in Islam in various countries are being abused but that is not what this article is about ”Dude”!
Instead of dealing with the bad behavior at work place and putting people in their place, you want to go the opposite way and contain and restrict women?? Dress does make a difference but no one must be in a place where they need to mask and cover themselves from head to toe for them to feel secure.
There’s one plain question to all of you. Is it a woman’s fault if she is sexually abused by men?
(PS: I’m not talking about the women who over expose themselves).
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Muslim women apparently cover themselves out of tradition and religious practice. Wish you would point us to some info as regards to what you wrote about Muslim women seeing their being covered up as immunity and not limitation.